Churches who baptize kids are usually ‘Nicolatian’ in nature, attempting to conquer as large a congregation as they can, not disappointing anyone, but filling their churches with all manner of unsound people to gain and expand. So they will grab a child as soon as they can, else they could lose it to another church. This surely is not the work of Christ and the Holy Gospel.
The other thing those churches dear to do is to not actually Baptize ( push under water then pull back out of the water ) but, mainly in Catholic churches, they even go as far as to pour a cup of water over your skull which they then gather in a bowl as it flows down. How deceitful and arrogant: how brutal! And why this? Because, as you can imagine, or you may have seen, it is a huge problem to manage large volumes of water in the churches, and also to discard of the used water is a problem. Properly build churches have Baptism pools built-in, as it should be. Or, indeed, they should go and find a river or a loch to perform the act. But certainly, they should not make things easy for themselves by ‘corrupting the Baptism’ as the Roman Catholic and other Catholic Churches do.
Those who join a church under false pretense, for whatever reason other than to join the church in the name of Christ,
are baptized into that church, not into the Church of Christ.
Note that, if your church organization is not a Church of Christ, but pretends to be: as you walk into the Baptism earnestly, you will be baptized; even if a rogue minister/priest baptizes you, as you have surrendered to Christ that and you knew not of this evil.
Forcing somebody into the Baptism is not the way: that person shall not be baptized. John the Baptist called the people to ‘The Church’, preaching the word, asking them to repent, then come to the Baptism. You must accept Christ, then take the Baptism; walking into the Constitution through Baptism, through your own will. Any child taken to the Baptism by parents, in fact, has to be Baptized properly, later in life. They must walk into the Baptism through their own will as that will result in their true Baptism.
Many kids who have been pseudo-baptized have lived a life of fornication and transgression and should be baptised properly, repenting before they Baptise. And remember, there is only one repentance and only one Baptism, there is no second chance. So your prayers for forgiveness, on fornication committed after your baptism, shall not be heard. HEB 10:26
Believers must understand that from the moment they become Christian they are members of ‘The Church’
which is not tangible, like the building here or the place there; but it is the Assembly of True Christians who walk in the 12 commandments and the doctrine of Christ.
HEB 10: 26 For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins,
HEB 10: 27 But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries.
Note: ‘knowledge of the truth’ does not denote you having read the Gospel and knowingly doing wrong, but it refers to you having baptized and willfully sinning afterward. There is only one sacrifice for sin in the New Testament: repentance and baptism – nothing else. Through baptizing, you sacrifice your freedom: from then on you agree not to willfully do that which God forbids (would this be possible) for you are reborn of incorruptible seed.